Day 5: The Grief of Exile and the Joy of Return -- Those Who Sow in Tears Shall Reap with Shouts of Joy
Reading
- Psalm 137; Psalm 126
Historical Context
Psalm 137 is one of the few psalms that can be dated with precision. The opening line – “By the waters of Babylon, there we sat down and wept, when we remembered Zion” (al naharot bavel sham yashavnu gam bakhinu bezokhrenu et tsiyon) – places the psalmist among the Jewish exiles deported after Nebuchadnezzar’s destruction of Jerusalem in 586 BC. The “waters of Babylon” are the canals of the Euphrates irrigation system that crisscrossed Mesopotamia, including the Chebar canal near Nippur where Ezekiel also lived (Ezekiel 1:1). The exiles were not imprisoned but settled in communities, permitted to build houses and plant gardens (Jeremiah 29:5-7). The suffering was not physical torture but something more insidious: cultural and spiritual displacement. They were alive but uprooted, free but homeless, breathing but unable to sing.
The Babylonian captors demand entertainment: “Sing us one of the songs of Zion!” (Psalm 137:3). The Hebrew simchah (“mirth” or “joy”) in their request reveals the cruelty: they want the sacred hymns of Israel performed as novelty music for a foreign audience. The exiles refuse. They hang their lyres (kinnorot) on the willows (aravim) – a gesture of protest and grief. The kinnor was the instrument of temple worship, associated with David himself (1 Samuel 16:23). To hang it on a tree is to declare that worship has been suspended – not because God is absent, but because the conditions for singing have been destroyed. “How shall we sing the LORD’s song in a foreign land?” (Psalm 137:4) is not a theological question. It is a cry wrung from the throat of a people whose world has collapsed.
The psalm’s closing verses – the imprecation against Babylon and the blessing pronounced on whoever dashes Babylon’s infants against the rock – shock modern readers. The Hebrew ashre she’yochez venippets et olalayikh el hasela (Psalm 137:9) must be read within the conventions of ancient Near Eastern warfare poetry and within the prophetic tradition that declared Babylon’s judgment (Isaiah 13:16; Jeremiah 51:56). The psalmist is not issuing a call to action. He is handing his rage to God – placing the desire for vengeance into the grammar of prayer rather than the grammar of violence. Imprecatory prayer is the refusal to take revenge into one’s own hands while insisting that justice is real and that God must act.
Psalm 126 belongs to the “Songs of Ascents” (shir hama’alot), a collection (Psalms 120-134) traditionally sung by pilgrims ascending to Jerusalem for the annual festivals. Its setting is the return from exile – either the initial return under Cyrus’s decree in 538 BC or one of the subsequent waves of restoration. The opening line captures the disbelief: “When the LORD restored the fortunes of Zion, we were like those who dream” (hayinu kecholmim). The joy is so unexpected, so disproportionate to what the exiles had dared to hope, that it feels unreal. The Hebrew cholmim (“dreamers”) suggests a state between waking and sleeping – the astonishment of people who cannot yet believe what their eyes are seeing.
The psalm moves from past deliverance to present petition. “Restore our fortunes, O LORD, like streams in the Negev!” (Psalm 126:4). The aphiqim bannegev – the dry riverbeds of the southern desert that fill suddenly and dramatically during the rainy season – provide the image: restoration comes not gradually but in a rush, transforming a parched landscape overnight. The closing agricultural metaphor – “Those who sow in tears shall reap with shouts of joy!” (hazzor’im bedim’ah berinah yiqtsoru, Psalm 126:5) – is the psalm’s theological thesis. Weeping and harvest are not opposites. They are stages in the same process. The tears are not wasted. They are seeds.
Together, these two psalms bracket the emotional range of exile and return. Psalm 137 is the sound of faith in the darkness – raw, unprocessed, refusing to perform joy it does not feel. Psalm 126 is the sound of faith in the light – stunned, overflowing, unable to contain the joy of unexpected restoration. Between them lies the territory where most of the life of faith is actually lived.
Christ in This Day
The exiles who hung their lyres on the willows and refused to sing the LORD’s song in a foreign land were living in the tension that defines the entire Christian life – the space between promise and fulfillment, between the “already” and the “not yet.” Jesus himself inhabited this space. He wept over Jerusalem (Luke 19:41). He cried out from the cross, “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” (Matthew 27:46) – a lament as raw as Psalm 137, voiced by the one in whom all laments find their truest speaker. Christ does not merely sympathize with exile. He enters it. The incarnation is itself a form of exile – the Son leaving the Father’s immediate presence to dwell in a foreign land, a world twisted by sin and death. The willows of Babylon become the wood of the cross. The silenced lyre becomes the silenced voice of Holy Saturday. The question “How shall we sing the LORD’s song in a foreign land?” becomes “My God, why have you forsaken me?” And the one who asks it is the one who will answer it – not by explaining the suffering, but by passing through it and emerging on the other side.
Psalm 126’s vision of tears transformed into harvest – “Those who sow in tears shall reap with shouts of joy” – is the agricultural language of resurrection. Jesus uses this exact metaphor in John 12:24: “Unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it bears much fruit.” The grain that falls is the grain that weeps – buried, broken, apparently destroyed. But the burial is not the end. It is the precondition of the harvest. Jesus tells his disciples on the night of his arrest: “You will weep and lament, but the world will rejoice. You will be sorrowful, but your sorrow will turn into joy… So also you have sorrow now, but I will see you again, and your hearts will rejoice, and no one will take your joy from you” (John 16:20, 22). The pattern of Psalm 126 – tears preceding and producing joy – is the pattern of Good Friday producing Easter. The sowing in tears is the cross. The reaping with shouts of joy is the empty tomb.
The imprecatory rage of Psalm 137:8-9 – the cry for justice against Babylon – finds its resolution not in the destruction of the psalmist’s enemies but in the cross, where God’s justice and God’s mercy meet in a single act. The desire for vengeance that the psalmist hands to God, God satisfies – not by destroying the wicked, but by absorbing the penalty of wickedness in himself. Romans 12:19 – “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord” – is the New Testament restatement of the imprecatory psalm. And the way God repays is the cross: justice executed, mercy extended, the rage of exile answered by the blood of the Lamb. Revelation 21:4 promises the final resolution: “He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.” The silenced lyres will be unstrung from the willows. The song that could not be sung in Babylon will be sung in the new Jerusalem. And it will be the song of the Lamb (Revelation 15:3).
Key Themes
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Honest lament as faith – Psalm 137 refuses to manufacture joy it does not feel. The exiles will not perform worship on demand for their captors. The refusal to sing is itself an act of faith – an insistence that worship is not entertainment and that grief in the presence of God is more honest than forced praise in the presence of enemies. Lament is not the opposite of faith. It is faith stripped to its essence.
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Tears as seeds – Psalm 126:5 declares that weeping is not wasted but productive. “Those who sow in tears shall reap with shouts of joy.” The metaphor insists on a connection between suffering and fruitfulness that is not explanatory (it does not tell you why you suffer) but promissory (it tells you that the suffering will yield). The tears are not merely endured. They are planted. And what is planted, God grows.
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The dream of restoration – “We were like those who dream” (Psalm 126:1). The return from exile was so unexpected that the returning exiles could not fully believe it. The joy of deliverance is not simply pleasure. It is astonishment – the recognition that God has done something so far beyond expectation that it feels like waking from a dream into a reality more real than anything previously known.
Connections
Old Testament Roots
Psalm 137 draws on the prophetic tradition of Babylon’s judgment: Isaiah 13:1-22 and Jeremiah 50-51 pronounce extended oracles against Babylon, including the reversal of its cruelty. The image of weeping by the waters echoes the lament traditions of Jeremiah, often called “the weeping prophet” (Jeremiah 9:1; Lamentations 1-5). Psalm 126’s streams in the Negev recall Isaiah 35:6-7, where the desert blooms at God’s restoration: “waters break forth in the wilderness, and streams in the desert.” The sowing-and-reaping metaphor connects to Hosea 10:12: “Sow for yourselves righteousness; reap steadfast love.”
New Testament Echoes
Jesus weeps over Jerusalem (Luke 19:41-44), entering the lament of Psalm 137 in his own person. His cry of dereliction from the cross (Matthew 27:46) is the ultimate “song of Zion” sung in the ultimate “foreign land” of God-forsakenness. John 16:20-22 explicitly promises the Psalm 126 pattern: “your sorrow will turn into joy.” 2 Corinthians 4:17-18 reframes exile’s suffering: “this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison.” Romans 8:18-25 describes all of creation groaning in labor pains – the cosmic version of sowing in tears – waiting for the revelation of the sons of God. Revelation 21:4 is the final Psalm 126: every tear wiped away, every lyre unstrung from the willows, every silenced song restored.
Parallel Passages
Lamentations 5:21 – “Restore us to yourself, O LORD, that we may be restored! Renew our days as of old” – voices the same plea as Psalm 126:4. Isaiah 61:1-3 promises that God will “comfort all who mourn… give them a beautiful headdress instead of ashes, the oil of gladness instead of mourning, the garment of praise instead of a faint spirit.” Jeremiah 31:13 declares: “I will turn their mourning into joy; I will comfort them, and give them gladness for sorrow” – the prophetic equivalent of Psalm 126:5.
Reflection Questions
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Psalm 137 gives voice to grief so deep that worship feels impossible. The exiles hang their lyres on the willows and refuse to sing. Have you experienced a season when honest silence before God felt more faithful than forced praise? What did that season teach you about the nature of worship?
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“Those who sow in tears shall reap with shouts of joy” (Psalm 126:5). This promise does not explain suffering; it insists that suffering will yield a harvest. Where in your life have you seen tears become seeds – grief that eventually, unexpectedly, produced something you could not have anticipated?
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The returning exiles “were like those who dream” – their joy was so unexpected they could barely believe it. When has God’s deliverance in your life felt too good to be real? What does it mean to receive joy not as something you earned but as something that astonishes you?
Prayer
God of exile and return, God of silenced lyres and shouts of harvest – we bring you the full range of our hearts today. We bring you the grief that cannot sing and the joy that cannot be contained. We bring you the seasons of Psalm 137, when we sit by strange waters and wonder how to worship in a world that feels foreign. And we bring you the seasons of Psalm 126, when your deliverance breaks through so suddenly that we can only stand and stare like people waking from a dream. Teach us that both are faithful. Teach us that the tears we sow are not wasted but planted – that you are growing something in the dark soil of our suffering that will surface in its season with shouts of joy. And hasten the day when every tear is wiped away, every lyre is taken down from the willows, and the song that could not be sung in Babylon is sung forever in your presence. We pray in the name of Jesus Christ, who wept over Jerusalem, cried out from the cross, and rose on the third day to turn our mourning into dancing. Amen.